by Texas Homesteader ~
December holidays are celebrated in many different ways. No need in bristling over ‘Merry Christmas’ or ‘Happy Holidays’. You may not celebrate your holidays the same way your neighbor does. And that’s OK!
This time of year we often see shouting from different sides of the fence about the holidays. Some are incensed that someone would dare take Christ out of the holiday, some are angry that someone is pushing for only homemade gifts while others are angry that some families like to shop for their Christmas gifts.
I find this puzzling and oftentimes very much counter to the season itself. A season that typically promotes feelings of joy & peace.
Celebrating Christmas Differently
RancherMan & I are strong in our Christian faith and Christmas is a holiday we embrace as such. We love keeping our faith at the forefront of the holiday.
But it’s important to remember that not everyone feels nor celebrates the same as us.
Some prefer to say ‘Happy Holidays’ instead of Merry Christmas. I feel the way they embrace their holiday is none of my business. Just as the way we embrace our holiday is none of theirs.
Each family has the right to celebrate in a way that works best for them.
Santa or not. – Gifts or not. – Decorations or not!
What About Those Gifts?
Several years ago RancherMan & I took a long hard look at the gifts we gave. We decided to step off the consumerism bandwagon and restrict gifts to things we made ourselves.
But some like to do a 4-gift system: Something they want, something they need, something to wear and something to read.
It’s a cute idea and if it works for your family – go for it!
Others like to do a 3-gift system in honor of the 3 gifts brought to the Christ child by the Magi. Another cute gift idea and one that reels in the sometimes overabundance children receive this time of year. If it works for your family, great!
Some families like to buy & wrap as many gifts as they can cram beneath the tree. They get much joy out of the excitement on their loved ones faces. If that’s your idea of a wonderful Christmas – do it!
The Most Important Thing To Remember
But here’s the important thing to remember for all of us. Remember that not everyone is a Christian, not everyone is a minimalist and not everyone will celebrate their holiday as you do.
As a Christian I try to stay mindful of the love that Christ taught. So if my initial reaction toward someone else’s values is feeling provoked, well maybe I need to look inward & decide if my reactions are living up to my values.
Are my actions helping me to make the holiday beautiful, or are they just creating dividing lines in the sand?
Remember the crazy outrage that exploded on social media one year over the design of a disposable coffee cup? Let’s not do that this year!
Remember the outcry in years past over whether someone said ‘Merry Christmas’ or ‘Happy Holidays’? Let’s all remember that we have no right to force our beliefs and values on someone else.
If you value keeping Christ in the holidays, do that. (hint, there’s an easier & kinder way to keep Christ in Christmas)
If you love the idea of Santa and dressing up, do that. Or if you love decorating every inch of your house, do that.
And if you relish in shopping for that one special gift for someone you love by all means do that. Enjoy the holidays in a way that speaks to your heart.
And maybe – just maybe – we can all share a little love and tolerance this year and allow others to embrace the traditions they love as well.
Wouldn’t that make a beautiful holiday even more beautiful for all of us?
What better gift than the gift of love?
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