by Texas Homesteader ~
It’s way too easy to look at that person asking for food assistance and judge whether or not they actually DESERVE it. You may wonder if they’re just lazy, if they’re trying to cheat the system, or if they don’t want to work to provide for themselves.
But please Don’t Judge! There are way too many things you don’t know…
Life Can Turn Complicated FAST
It’s easy to overlook basic need when your life is going well. You know, when your career is holding steady, your children are healthy and happy, your marriage is strong and you have no sudden unexpected medical conditions to plunge you into that place where no one wants to land…
But what if that weren’t the case??
Think about these real-life circumstances for just a moment:
- What if your spouse left you or died?
- What if you were laid off from your posh well-paying career without warning?
- What if your child developed a serious and very expensive medical condition?
Don’t kid yourself, these things can happen to any of us.
What Does ‘Poor’ Look Like?
I know several families who are struggling. Some temporarily and very recently due to an unexpected event. Others, due to circumstances beyond their control, have been struggling for longer.
Of course on the surface you can’t tell that they are struggling. Many of the things they own were purchased and paid for when times were better for them.
And of course nicer clothes can be purchased at a thrift store for very little money. So can jewelry, household goods and many other things that people like to have.
You often can’t tell just by looking at someone what their financial circumstance is.
How To Tell If Someone Actually Needs Help
This is the point of my post: Some who are asking for assistance may be receiving erroneous and hurtful judgement from others based on false perception. When we look at them we might see nothing different than ourselves.
We may sneer that they really don’t ‘NEED‘ the help they’re asking for.
Or we suspiciously suspect that they probably have enough money to fill their own needs if they really wanted.
We may judge that if they don’t have enough money, maybe they should just work harder if they’re in a bind.
But it’s important to remember that we don’t know their circumstances.
You can’t tell a person’s need by looking at them!
Think about it – if hard times fell for you, you’d not just start dressing in rags to announce to the world that your world was crumbling. You’d not suddenly ‘look the part‘. And neither will anyone else.
Here’s My Wish For A Kinder Humanity:
Two special seasons are upon us. The season of Thanksgiving when we’re reminded to be thankful for our blessings whether large or small. And also Christmas when we all feel that tug to be mindful of others’ circumstances.
I hope we all remember that we’re all just one terrible situation away from being on the receiving end of others’ generosity.
So please don’t judge a book by its cover!
We don’t know what life is like behind closed doors for that person we’re looking at. But she’s worthy of our help and our love.
Other Humanity Posts
- Why Can’t We All Get Along With Our Fellow Humans??
- Snap Judgement: All Is Not Always As It Appears
- The Ripple Effect: How You Affect Others
- Showing Love In A Time Of Sorrow
- Many Flowers Make For A More Beautiful Bouquet
- Generosity Shouldn’t Be Judgmental: Just Show Love
- My Journey May Not Be YOUR Journey: And That’s OK’!
- Dealing With Gossip So No One Gets Hurt
- Learning To Say “NO” To More Commitments
- The TRUTH Behind Perfect FB Posts
- Why Doesn’t Junior Want Grandma’s Fine China?
- September 11th – Where Were You?
- The Fast Life: Slowing Down & Living MORE
- Simplify Your Estate – Document These Numbers NOW!
- Learn To Recognize Stress In Your Family & Seek Help
- The Importance Of The Family Supper Table
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