Paying It Forward… In REAL LIFE

by Tammy Taylor

 

By now many of you know I was diagnosed with breast cancer a few years ago. (I just passed  another survivorship anniversary!!)  There were many frightening aspects of going through that diagnosis and recovery.  But I was surprised to find many blessings along the way as well!  As I was going through the surgeries I found myself feeling depressed about the things that made up the gentle rhythm of my life that were completely disrupted.  Not only my health but my whole world was upside down!

Living & working on a cattle ranch means I certainty couldn’t do my ranching chores for awhile. And my strength was zapped so it was difficult to even do the simple things like cook and clean, and planting my beloved garden was out of the question.    But a group of friends surprised me by showing up at my door early one Saturday and planting my garden for me.  Tears of joy and appreciation streamed down my face as I was touched by their kind gesture.  I truly felt the embrace of God Himself that day.  D’ya hear that???  Felt the embrace of GOD Now that’s a powerful feeling, my friends!

Ironically one of the people that showed up that morning recently had a very serious accident.  Like me, he couldn’t imagine not planting his beloved garden.  But like me he just can’t physically do it this year.  He was there for me when I needed him in 2013 & he asked for nothing in return.  He was just giving of himself, showing God’s love that day.  He could have never known how much his gift meant to me but it meant a lot.  Now I’ll make sure he feels that love as well.  It’s time for me to reach out & pay it forward!

Paying it forward In Real Life. Many People want to Pay It Forward but don't know what to do. There are many day-to-day opportunities in REAL LIFE to do something great! #TexasHomesteader

Preparations Made

I first checked with his wife to assure that with all the extra responsibilities of being a caregiver, having a garden this year would be a blessing & not something that would add to her already-heavy burden.  She assured me that this would indeed be a blessing for both of them, although she desired to bring the size of their usually-huge garden down to a more manageable size this year.  So I put the word out at church and with a few close mutual friends.  By golly, we’ll step in and plant his garden for him this year! She said she wanted to pick up the plants that she wanted included.  I certainly understand that since most people have their favorite varieties of veggies they enjoy eating.

But I had a few tiny heirloom seedlings and I asked if it was OK for me to bring them – we could plant them at the end of the garden or even in separate containers if they wanted.  She assured me that would be fine.  So I brought along tomatoes, banana peppers and jalapenos to share.  In the days prior to planting I tried to make sure the seedlings were properly hardened off so they would be able to survive outside of the greenhouse.

Pay It Forward

So at last the day of planting arrived!  Several of us showed up at their home early Saturday morning, work gloves in hand.  Although the forecast had been threatening heavy rain for this day, it did not rain.  The weather was absolutely lovely for planting!

The garden area had already been tilled before our arrival so getting the garden planted was going to be a cinch.  We gathered the seedlings brought by volunteers and the other seedlings that had been purchased the day before.  It was time to begin laying out the garden in the pattern they wanted it planted.

Paying it forward In Real Life. Many People want to Pay It Forward but don't know what to do. There are many day-to-day opportunities in REAL LIFE to do something great! #TexasHomesteader

 

Many Hands Make Light Work

The ground was soft and lightly moist with the morning dew. We chatted and laughed with each other as we set to our work.    Oh my goodness there were so many blessings to go around!  The honorees certainly felt the love and blessing being delivered that day but the volunteers were blessed as well.  It was yet another opportunity for us tie that bond that we already felt just a little tighter.  The unmistakable  bond of friendship and discipleship.  The strong bond of community and caring.  I love all of these people like family and I’ll always be there to step in and help when they need me.  I know they will always be there for me as well.

Paying it forward In Real Life. Many People want to Pay It Forward but don't know what to do. There are many day-to-day opportunities in REAL LIFE to do something great! #TexasHomesteader

In attendance at this fun gathering were many of the sweet people that were here at our ranch two years ago planting my garden!  Now here they were again, giving of themselves on a Saturday morning to show that same love to someone else.  What caring, giving people we have in our community!

An Important Teaching Moment

And in one case it was even a family affair teaching kinda moment.  Although this young mom already had prior commitments on this day, she brought her two young children to help so that she could once again show them that when there is an opportunity to show God’s love, you do it. You just make it happen.

The men worked hard too, but of course there are chewing-the-fat sessions that are just part of the whole process.  I loved to see them chatting – I swear they were solving the world’s problems right then, right there!

Paying it forward In Real Life. Many People want to Pay It Forward but don't know what to do. There are many day-to-day opportunities in REAL LIFE to do something great! #TexasHomesteader

When it was all said & done, the garden was planted in record time.  There were lots of things planted that day – tomatoes, peppers, squash, flowers and LOVE!

I hear people say sometimes that although they have the desire to Pay It Forward they just don’t know where to start.  I’m here to tell ya there are many day-to-day opportunities in REAL LIFE to do something great!  It’s the ripple effect in action, and it’s a beautiful thing indeed.  Reach out to someone today!

~TxH~

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28 thoughts on “Paying It Forward… In REAL LIFE

  1. Allison B

    Wonderful post! It truly is easy to pay it forward. I find that when I’m out with my kids that just a smile when things are getting out of hand helps me.

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  3. JES

    What a beautiful story! Thank you for sharing this encouragement on the Art of Home-Making Mondays. “Carrying one another’s burdens” is not only a homesteading blessing but a biblical lifestyle! This fellowship together while helping another in need is also precious! Like you mentioned, blessings both ways…

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    1. Texas Homesteader Post author

      A blessing indeed JES. I saw this gentleman the other day and asked him how his garden was doing and his reply was that it was growing very well, the best garden they ever had. 🙂 ~TMR~

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    1. Texas Homesteader Post author

      Thanks Robin. A “friend” I’ve never met but is a follower on our FB page is just beginning her battle. RancherMan & I both keep her in our prayers for strength & healing. ~TMR~

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  4. Terri Presser

    Fantastic, what a wonderful way to bless someone. You have given me food for thought. Often I cook for people but ,have shown me there is so much more we can do. I particularly like that you sorted it out with this man’s wife first so that the blessing didn’t become a burden. Thank you for sharing at Good Morning Mondays. Blessings to you.

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    1. Texas Homesteader Post author

      There were plenty of blessings going around Lisa, that’s for sure. …and it’s also representative of the ripple effect in action. We oftentimes have no idea how we affect others but our ripples (both good or bad) reach far.

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  5. JD

    One of the nicest things my husband did for me while I was undergoing cancer treatment was to plant me a small pot of flowers for on our deck. Every day as I was in the room I could see the flowers and remember how wonderful the earth is that was created for us to enjoy. What a huge blessing.

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  6. Patricia

    Tammy- a wonderful message a reminder — we are part of the solution– but it’s not all about us. Glory to God! I have to ask– did you not feel the same loving embrace in both instances?!? And isn’t it wonderful??

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  7. MM

    Wow – so AWESOME! I thought of the scripture – it is more blessed to give than to receive! You know, in giving, so much was gained by all who participated! What a wonderful blessing for all involved, and the garden looks amazing! Such a happy post to share! 🙂

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